
“Buffy is a true north guide through the never-ending rocky channels.”
-Sarah P.
Launched in April 2020, the Things That Will Help podcast has become an anchor for Buffy and her community of listeners. How do we stay open in this world? How do we grow through our pain? Buffy offers practical guidance on life’s universal themes and questions grounded in textured storytelling. She teaches about the beauty and the breadth of human experience, even in all of its pain and cracking.
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Playlists
Each episode is accompanied by a Spotify playlist, curated by Matthew Cooper, which span genres, moods, and characteristics. See the full archive of playlists here.
Episode 35: Beauty Marks Will Help (Part 2)
Beauty marks make the world more real, beautiful, and alive. From a brisk cold winter day, to the perfect pen and paper, to strange four-year-old fascinations, this episode will have you delighting in the small beautiful things in life.
Episode 34: Your Why Will Help
Peloton instructor and all-around badass Tunde Oyeneyin is the inspiration for this episode, and Buffy riffs on her framework of building a personal mission statement to organize your words and actions daily. This is a practice that will widen your spiritual scope and clarify your compass' true north.
Episode 33: Getting Lost Will Help
When was the last time you were lost? Buffy moves us through stories of getting lost, distinguishing its different varieties in a way both poetic and practical. A healthy kind of getting lost feels like a lost that creates strength and gratitude to return home.
Episode 32: In Media Res Will Help
Buffy begins this season right in the middle - in media res. She discusses the idea of the threshold, and how we are always in the middle, on our way up, or on our way down, from just about everything.
Episode 31: Bravery Will Help
This week's stories include tales of doctor office visits, angel cheerleaders in the form of middle school teachers, closet cheetahs and tigers, and the bravery to leave a marriage. You will leave this episode feeling enlivened, bolstered, and just maybe your flicker of bravery blooming into a full flame.
Episode 30: Graceland Will Help
Have you ever felt the wide, encompassing experience of grace? If you're not sure, this episode will light up the ways grace can be lived, felt, and experienced.
Episode 29: Truxel Will Help
What do Freddy Mercury’s teeth, twins, and extreme introversion have in common? This week’s invitation is to consider your Truxel and polish it.
Episode 28: Speed Bumps & Parades Will Help
Listen to tales of temper tantrums and raging inner fires, and how speed bumps can be a tool for course correction and parades a tool for recalibration.
Episode 27: Remembering Will Help
If you stripped away all of the personal hurts, injustices, and trauma that have covered you up, and made you self-protect over the years, what would be underneath that? What's the quality you come by most honestly?
Episode 26: Cherry Picking Mutts Will Help
Did you know that mutts are generally healthier than purebred dogs? Buffy talks about why that makes sense, and shares stories of Anusara yoga, "guru moments," and how cherry-picking the sweet fruit from various systems can help you build your own personal system of integrity, intuition, and wisdom.
Episode 25: Red Carpet Will Help
Well… it’s election week, and even though Buffy recorded this before we knew the results, her message is simple: roll out the red carpet for your feelings.
Episode 24: Hooking Your Hitch Will Help
What do you give a damn about? In this episode, Buffy talks about the high stakes moment in time we are living in, a time where neutrality and silence can have dangerous consequences.
Episode 23: Beauty Marks Will Help
Beauty marks are daily, sense-based, present-tense small treasures that are hopeful, happy, and good. They don’t negate anything hard, but they help one to remember the beauty amidst the difficulty.
Episode 22: Intuition Will Help
Intuition: it’s really simple, and it’s really hard. It is, like most things, a practice. The voice of our intuition is always there, but we listen selectively.
Episode 21: Unlacing Will Help
In this episode, Buffy talks about the insidious trap of comparative suffering. Listen to stories of apology, struggling creatives, and the way hidden suffering amplifies shame.
Episode 20: Resilience Will Help
Buffy reframes the idea of resilience from “bouncing back” into a new picture of “bouncing forward.” Resilience isn’t really possible if we get too nostalgic about the way things were - we have to stick in the present tense, and to build and bounce forward from challenge and difficulty.
Episode 19: Holding Back Will Help
In our creative lives, an incubation period is necessary, and how when we over-share, or share too soon, we jeopardize a vital, healthy birth.
Episode 18: “Revolutionary Love” Will Help
This episode is entirely devoted to the book “See No Stranger” by Valarie Kaur. Valarie invites us to transition into a new, vibrant world through an embodied description of how the individual body meets the collective body, and where the two are dependent on each other.
Episode 17: Shattering the Myth Will Help
The topic of shattering the myth requires deep self-inquiry, especially when it comes to deciding what’s ours and what’s not ours to haul on the next leg of the journey. Shatter the myth you’ve been perpetuating that’s been perpetuated for you.
Episode 16: Curiosity Will Help
In order for magic to touch down, curiosity has to be in the room. Buffy talks about curiosity from the standpoint of creative processes, and curiosity in relationships.