“Buffy is a true north guide through the never-ending rocky channels.”
-Sarah P.
Launched in April 2020, the Things That Will Help podcast has become an anchor for Buffy and her community of listeners. How do we stay open in this world? How do we grow through our pain? Buffy offers practical guidance on life’s universal themes and questions grounded in textured storytelling. She teaches about the beauty and the breadth of human experience, even in all of its pain and cracking.
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Playlists
Each episode is accompanied by a Spotify playlist, curated by Matthew Cooper, which span genres, moods, and characteristics. See the full archive of playlists here.
Episode 147: Supporting Anxiety Will Help
This week's episode is a practical plan to support in your anxiety. There are different practices to help you access your body, soothe your mind, and tend to the practical areas of your life to support your inner world.
Episode 146: Taking the Top Off Will Help
. What happens when you become unrecognizable to others through life circumstances, purposeful change, or both? Buffy talks about what happens when we shed a layer of the old us and find a more authentic, expressed center.
Episode 144: Letters Will Help
The process of writing a letter, in an authentic way, changes you. It marks something, and it is exchange of energy, whether it is delivered to the person it was meant for, or not.
Episode 143: Joy Capital Will Help
It is easy for challenging moments in our lives to capture our attention and energy; it is perhaps much more difficult to pay attention to what's beautiful, true, and brings us joy.
Episode 142: These Piles Will Help
What is mine now? What is mine for later? What is not mine at all? Buffy offers definitions for these piles that offer clarity, save time, and protect emotional energy.
Episode 141: Bravery, Not Perfection, Will Help
As a treat for listeners this week, Buffy brings on her husband Matt to deliver a speech he recently gave to a group of thousands about fear, bravery, perfection, and the ways they are all braided together.
Episode 140: Returning to Rhythms Will Help
You are probably managing an impossible soup of lightning-quick news cycles, a daily-changing world, a complex inner life, all while remembering the tasks that make your life run. Buffy talks to listeners about how slowing down can support the endeavor to regulate our nervous systems, bolster hope, and prioritize connection.
Episode 139: Field Agents Will Help
Buffy helps listeners deepen their understanding of the phrase “it takes a village”; that we might look for and cultivate the "field agents" in our life that support our families, our goals, and our personal unfolding.
Episode 138: Buffy Gets a Birth Chart Reading
In this special episode, Alex gives Buffy an astrological natal chart reading. They talk about the intricacies and complexities of Buffy's life and being, and about her hard-won identity as a communicator, writer, and orator.
Episode 137: Benjamin Will Help
Buffy celebrates her brother Benjamin, who died twenty years ago this week. Buffy honors the lessons of not only his death but his life.
Episode 136: Energy Reserves Will Help
Your energy and your time are some of the most valuable resources you have, and in this episode Buffy speaks to the ways energy currency relates to introversion vs. extroversion.
Episode 135: Marking Time Will Help
Buffy reflects on four years of Things That Will Help and the power of standing still, looking back, and marking moments in time as a way to measure our transformation.
Episode 134: Radical Responsibility Will Help
Buffy calls us to take radical responsibility for our lives, even when it is inconvenient; even when it is difficult; even when it is easier to shirk it. Wanting it is not always enough - so what can we do to bridge the gap between wanting it and having it?
Episode 133: The Solar Eclipse Will Help
This is a powerful time for healing, transformation, and reflection on the ways we want to show up in the world. Buffy and Alex discuss practical ways to work with the volatile energy of this current astrological weather.
Episode 132: The Lunar Eclipse Will Help
Buffy welcomes TTWH editor and producer Alex Ammons - who also moonlights as a professional astrologer. Alex and Buffy talks about the two-week period of the eclipse season - which, on this episode air date, we are in the thick of.
Episode 131: Less Equipment Will Help
This episode is dedicated to the power you contain and the practices that help cultivate your ability to stand vertical, with... less. What if the answers you seek don't lie in trendy workout equipment and the never-ending cycle of "self-help"? We go in to find out.
Episode 130: Cell Support Will Help
Today's episode explores how we can cultivate joy, health, and happiness without turning our faces away from the pain of the world, which sometimes asks for our attention and other times demands it.
Episode 129: Tricia Get a Buggy Will Help
Buffy's story about Tricia's buggy (southern for "shopping cart") illustrates the wisdom of our desires, and how sometimes pausing can give us the space to hear them truly and clearly.